Surviving an emotional affair is one of the most difficult things a person can go through. You have caught your spouse cheating. It has knocked the wind out of you and destroyed any semblance of trust that your marriage was built on. And yet many people, after having taken a little time to digest things, decide they want to do what it takes to save their marriage.
The fact that you are reading this article would indicate that you fall in that category. Most people that share this mindset figure they have invested years into being with this person who they loved enough to marry, so why should they just walk away and just leave all that to somebody else. You took your vows seriously€for better or for worse till death do you part.
So you have made the decision, or are at least seriously thinking about saving your marriage after an emotional affair. Now what? How do you go about it? Well, first, a word of advice on what you don't want to do.
Do Not Live in the Past -One common reaction is to try to move the marriage back to what it once was. To try and get to a time when your marriage was in a better and much happier state. You have to understand that by doing that, you run the risk of moving your marriage to the place where problems started in the first place. Many married couples look through rose-colored glasses to what they consider to be a happier time in the marriage, not realizing that often times couples will carry baggage and past negativity along with them right up to the present time. So don't just try to go back.
Start Rebuilding a New Foundation - The good news for you in surviving and emotional affair is that thousands of couples have done it before you! In fact, there are countless stories of couples who feel like their marriage is stronger than it ever was before the affair.
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