Monday, August 15, 2011

Do You Think You're Being Cheated On? Read These 3 Big Warning Signs Of Infidelity

3 Warning Signs of Infidelity

You have a sneaking suspicion that your partner is being unfaithful. Perhaps you've already taken note of some warning signs of infidelity. You love them and sincerely want to trust them, but certain things don't add up. Let me say first you have no need to put blame on yourself. Your lover's cheating is absolutely not your fault! Nothing justifies cheating in a relationship, period. If you're being cheated on, you deserve so much better! Read on to the 3 warning signs of infidelity below if you're ready to catch your cheater.

#1 White Lies

Small lies about seemingly unimportant things is one of the first warning signs of infidelity. These can simply be about when he paid the phone bill, or whether she "forgot" she had to work late. Cheaters feel like they need to cover their tracks so they'll lie about things they wouldn't normally lie about in order to dodge possible suspicion there.

#2 Lookin' Good, Feelin Not

Your spouse has begun to take better care of their appearance, however your sex life has noticeably suffered. She's spending more time putting on make up and wearing sexier clothes, or he's wearing cologne, shaving and wearing nice shirts. (By the way, do you know where those new clothes came from?) And yet they're not in the mood for making love as often as they used to be. Doesn't make sense, does it? These warning signs of infidelity are an indicator of possibly seeing someone on the side.

#3 A Little Paranoid
As said in #1, cheaters feel like they need to cover all their bases to ensure they don't seem suspicious in any way. So if you say something that gives a hint of doubting them, they may react in a defensive manner. For example you could jokingly say, "I know where yo u really where last night", and your spouse may react like, "What are you talking about? What do you mean?" They could even accuse you of cheating! These warning signs of infidelity may be subtle, but they are still important.

So you've looked at these warning signs of infidelity and feel even more sure. Now what do you do? I can say one thing for sure: don't confront your spouse right away. Gather your emotions and evidence first. If you accuse them and appear unstable and emotional, the cheater will be in control.

They will take the chance to appear calm, collected, and rational while you're an emotion mess. Don't give them this opportunity! Pretend you don't suspect anything and they will get cocky, making it more likely to screw up and give you more warning signs of infidelity. Gather up these war ning signs of infidelity. Express yourself to a close friend or family member (who you're sure you're partner isn't involved with) so you don't feel like an emotional time bomb ready to explode. Good luck!

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