It is never easysurviving infidelity in marriage. Even after you have 'dealt' with your husband's infidelity, it doesn't mean that he will not cheat on you again. Many times, it is because of these 3 signs of cheating you may have overlooked that allows your husband to continue his cheating ways.
Sign #1: Changes in his schedule
This may be one of the most obvious and most difficult signs to spot. There are plenty of reasons to back up his change in schedule. It might be due to change in shift at work or if his job requires plenty of travelling.
It is his and also your responsibility to make sure that he is transparent about his schedule. What you can do, is to let him know that you need him to be CONSTANTLY transparent about his schedule for you to trust him.
He may not like the idea of being transparent about his schedule, but I want you to know that you are entitled to know his every move because he is the one who cheated on you and he has to put in effort to gain back your trust.
Sign #2: He showers you with presents
You have to be very observant at this point in time. Yes, it is necessary. Because, aftersurviving infidelity in marriage, your husband might have changed for the better and you both seem to communicate very well and are very loving towards each other.
However, take note of the changes in his behaviour. For example, is he over-easy with agreeing with you? Or is he randomly giving you gifts and flowers?
These are very sweet actions which you should appreciate but at the same time, do not let down your guard. Sometimes when we are pampered with such love and attention, we tend to overlook some of the signs of infidelity.
So what I am trying to say is, appreciate his efforts in being nice but at the same time, do not let your guard down.
Sign #3: Changes in his enthusiasm in the bedroom
This, in my opinion, is the most difficult sign to pick out. I mean, we are all thankful for amazing sex but it could also be your man trying to overcompensate to throw you off the trail.
Enjoy the amazing sex, but do not be bewitched by his love-making skills and overlook signs of having an affair like clearing his browser history, looking over his back when you are around, etc. After all, you do not want to be surviving infidelity in marriage all over again.
These are just 3 signs of infidelity are just some of the most common ones you can pick out if your husband is cheating on you. I want you to know that you are entitled to know details of your husband's activities and him, being the one that cheated, needs to be the one putting in more effort to make sure that your marriage is able tosurvive an affair.
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