Are you worried that you are living with a cheating spouse? If your spouse has been more \"distant\" and secretive than is typical, he are she may just have a secret lover that is helping to ruin the relationship between you and your spouse.
Some universal signs of a cheating spouse include being secretive when taking cell phone calls. After all, almost everyone has a cell phone and through texting or actual voice calls, two people can easily spice up their relationship at any time. Because of this, you cheating spouse will often destroy most of their cell phone bill to hide all contacts with their lover.
And, if calls are made on yo ur traditional landline phone, you may often answer the phone only to hear the other party hang up. An increase in \"hang ups\" is another frequent sign of a possible affair.
And, since most affairs take place away from the homes of either cheating party, there will be dinners together and an occasional tryst at a motel or hotel. These evenings out are normally charged to a credit card. So, another suspicious behavior is the destruction of credit card statements to help hide cheating activities.
Suspicions about the unfaithfulness of your spouse can eat away at a marriage relationship. After all, when you were dating you had dreams of living happily ever after together. But, the reality of every day life does not usually match up to our dreams. And the statistics show that admitted affa irs runs up to 40 to 50% for both married men and women.
Since most marriage partners will not openly admit an affair, you have to have some solid evidence in order to confront your partner. Sometimes it\'s only when the truth comes out that your cheating spouse will admit their affair and take steps to end it. While the affair is secret it remains fun. But, when it is finally discovered the fun part of the affair is over and reconciliation of the marriage can take place.
So, how can you get the evidence you need to confront your cheating spouse? Two of the most popular ways are by hiring a private investigator or by tapping in on your spouse\'s cell phone.
Hiring a private investigator will help obtain hard evidence of your spouse\'s infidelity. This may include photos of your spouse with the other person. Records of dates, times and locations of meetings. And sometimes voice recordings of conversations. This material can often be used to confront your spouse or in a court of law during divorce proceedings. The advantages of using a private investigator include the hard evidence and potential testimony of the third party in court. The obvious disadvantage is the cost. It will often cost over $100 an hour to track your wayward spouse.
Another popular method of confirming your suspicions is to \"bug\" your spouse\'s cell phone. New applications (or cell phone aps) can be installed on a cell phone that are virtually undetectable. Yet, they will allow you to track your cheating spouse\'s location, ca pture their text messages, listen in on cell phone conversations, and even listen to what is going on when the cell phone is not being used. The obvious advantage is that you can begin gathering this information for less than $100. The disadvantage is that this information is not gathered by a disinterested third party and may not hold up in court.
However you get at the truth, you can either help end the illicit relationship and restore your marriage, or at least bring your uncertainty to and end and take whatever steps are necessary to get on with life. Sometimes it\'s the uncertainty that is the worst part of suspecting a cheating spouse.
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