Infidelity 101 - Discover the Truth and Uncover the Secrets

Everyone has heard the saying, "the honeymoon is over". For most relationships this is that point where each person becomes comfortable with the other person. You let down your guard more often, and probably do not pay as much attention to grooming or public display. For other relationships - maybe yours - it could mean something more. Do you suspect your significant other has a NEW significant other? Find out below what to look for that could indicate a cheating partner.

If you have been in your relationship long enough you are very sensitive to subtle changes in emotional behavior. If you start to see your spouse is showing less affection and attention to you, it could mean that his focus is elsewhere. Spending more time alone, less communication and lack of sexual desire are indicators that something is just not right. You could just chalk it up as a bad day for your spouse, but when these days turn into weeks and months, you better start to think otherwise. Shutting you out is a problem and unless they give you reasons why, you probably are dealing with wandering eyes.

On the other hand, if you see your spouse changing - new clothing styles, new cologne/perfume, changes to interests and desires - it might be an indicator of cheating. Sometimes people just need a change, but not to everything at once! This new love interest could be directing your spouse's lifestyle changes, all because that is the way they like to see him or her. With any new relationship there is a desire to please the other person - even look back to your own relationship beginnings. Your spouse's new look, for whatever reasons, is something you need to examine closely because there is probably a love interest behind it all.

Those extra hours at night at the office, or the frequent business trips out of town might be covers for you spouse's cheating desires. Dropping in to the office unannounced with lunch or calling their office to see how they are doing could alert you to a cheating spouse. If they are not where they said they were going to be - they better be ready to explain. If they know you could call or drop in at any time, those late night work hours or out of town trips might disappear - almost magically! If you used to go shopping together and now they want to do it alone - you have got to wonder why. Oh, maybe they are going shopping for you - to bring you a surprise....ha! Strongly insist you go with them, suddenly they probably will not need to get out alone.

There are more signs of a cheating spouse and information can be found below. You deserve to know what is going on with your spouse. If they are cheating on you, getting to the bottom of it all is first and foremost. What you choose to do at that point is in your hands.

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