Women are probably the most gifted as well as the most fragile of God's creation. They can be all loving if treated right but can be cunning and downright treacherous when crossed. In marriage, she is very dedicated to the cause. So why do women cheat? Let's explore this question and see the possibilities as to why.
Let's go back to the Garden of Eden just for a second. Remember when Eve had a conversation with the serpent about the tree in which she and Adam were not to touch the fruit thereof? The serpent never once pointed out the tree to her because women for the most part are different from men in that she is word, sound, intimacy activated. The serpent did not approach Adam with his cunning devices because men do not go for words from other males; we rather go for what we see.
In their conversation, the serpent stimulated Eve by connecting with her with what she desired to hear, that she surely would not die...you know the story. It is the same way with women today which is why one can see the most unattractive man with the most beautiful woman on his side; he has talked his way into her world. Women do not just want to hear that they are beautiful, smart, wise, sexy, sensuous, etc. but they need to hear it.
Everything that you did to get her, you need to make sure that it is continued. She needs to feel important; she needs to be important and the only thing you should put before her is God. Trust me, she will accept the fact that God is first rather than your job, your friends, your golfing game, your Saturday football games, your night out with the boys, and anything else you might put before her.
She needs to communicate both ways. She needs to express herself and we the man need to listen and respond effectively. Whatever the problem she is having is, and most cases she already has the answer, she needs her mate to be sensitive to this need. We as men tend to want to immediately solve the problem but that is not what she wants nor what she needs. She needs you to listen and systematically respond to her.
She also needs your intimacy. She needs your companionship, your chivalry, your compliments. When we as men fail to deliver and cater to her needs, she begins to notice the words that boost her confidence coming from other men. The void begins to be filled by strangers who would otherwise not be entertained if neglect or breakdown did not happen on the homefront.
So if we as men don't want our women to committ infidelity then it is our duty to treat her as she desires. Don't let your spouse communicate with the serpent unless you are ready to be hurt yourself.
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
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