Showing posts with label romance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label romance. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

10 Common Lies Told by Women

Why are some relationships more honest than others? Why are some couples more truthful with each other while others like to deceive the partner?
Why are some relationships more honest than others? Why are some couples more truthful with each other while others like to deceive the partner? Nobody deserves to be lied, but there are no doubts that women are telling lies considerably and often. But so men do the same.

If you have trust issues in your relationship, in general, a woman may lie to you. Trust is something that you must build from the beginning of the relationship. Even though, a lot of people say ‘‘white lies'' in order to make others feel better. Some women lie because, as caring creatures they want to spare the feelings of the man they are dating or seeing.

So, here are some common lies told by women that you should know. Someday you might hear them from your partner and it is better to know their real meaning.

1.You're perfect. I love you just the way you are and I wouldn't change a thing about you. Let's be serious; nobody is perfect. At the beginning of a relationship all of them say this because they didn't know you very well but after some time will definitely find something that needs changed. So, if she tells you something like this, don't be too enthusiastic because she finds you perfect just for a couple of days, and after that she will ask you to change.

2.You're right. Every time you are arguing with you're girlfriend usually ends up by telling you that you are right? Maybe this makes you feel proud of you, but you have to know that this is a big lie. She said this just to make you shut up, even if she didn't consider that you're right. She knows that after a while you will see that she was right, and may be waiting for apologize.

3.Nothing is wrong. The most common lie '' I'm fine'' when asked if there is something wrong is the most used by women. You see that she is upset, she is acting strange or doesn't want to talk to you too much and ask her what is the problem she says that everything is fine. They don't want to tell the real truth but they are expecting that men to figure out that something is wrong and those they had a mistake with something.

4.I do love sports honey. Maybe she agrees to stay and watch with you every week at a football game but this doesn't really mean that she like it. She accepts to do this just to show you that she is different from other girls and you have common interest. You may be thinking that you have found the perfect girl for you, because not many of them would like to stay to watch football, but don't be too happy because after a while she might had enough and get angry every time you sit down to watch a game.

5.I like spending time with your friends. At the beginning this is ok, but not too much. Even if they are good friends of you, she would like to spend more time alone with you and not with your friends. If she didn't tell you already this, she will ask you to keep visits from your buddies at minimum and then she might keep pretending she loves them.

6.Your family is adorable, so I like spending time with your family. The truth? Maybe twice a month. Think about it. Do you really think that she likes to spend time with your family where everybody is criticizing her and watch her every move? She agrees to spend time with your family when is necessary but she doesn't do it with much pleasure even if she is pretending in front of you that she likes them.

7.Your bank account doesn't matter. I hope you didn't believe this. We all know that this is definitely a lie. All women want a guy that is financial stable and independent, a guy that can assure her a future with no financial problems. This doesn't mean that you have to be very rich to have a girlfriend, but you have to have some money.

8.It doesn't bother to me if you look after women or go with your boys at strip-clubs. This is too good to be truth. Even she says that this is ok, she will definitely be upset that you want to go. They hate to feel second best to a night out with the guys, and accept this in order to make themselves seem less pathetically needy. If you choose to go, she will make you a lot of comments after, so you better think twice before you go.

9.You are very good in bed. If she choose to speak about this topic without you ask her, you don't have to believe all she says. If she starts to compliment you about your sexual experience it doesn't mean that she really believes that. Often a woman who cares about a man tell him all that she knows he wants to hear just to make him feel good about himself. So think about your girlfriend, your relationship, your sexual experience and see if you really deserve compliments on this topic.

10.Don't worry, it happens to everyone. If you just make a mistake, or fail in bed, you might hear this lie from your girlfriend. She doesn't want to show you how upset she is on you but in her mind thinks something else. I wouldn't be too sure that your mistake is forgiven and I would worry in not making too many '' accidents'' like these.

With all these presented, now will be more easy for you to know when your girlfriend is lying. As you see, what a woman says is not what she really thinks.

Friday, July 8, 2011

How To Keep The Romance Alive In A Marriage - Not As Hard As You Think!

The beat thing about marriage is sharing. This will be the answer of most successful marriage couple if you will be asking them about the romance in marriage. Both can enjoy the romance even if only one initiates sharing. Romance is an activity that cannot work without the participation of both. Sharing is really very important in a relationship.

If you have decided that romance will keep your marriage alive, and if you want to improve the romance on your marriage, you nee...
The beat thing about marriage is sharing. This will be the answer of most successful marriage couple if you will be asking them about the romance in marriage. Both can enjoy the romance even if only one initiates sharing. Romance is an activity that cannot work without the participation of both. Sharing is really very important in a relationship.

If you have decided that romance will keep your marriage alive, and if you want to improve the romance on your marriage, you need to work out on this part. You will need to plan your romance in advance on both of your minds.

If you will be giving gifts to your partner, make sure that the gift you are giving will affect your partner. The impact to your partner must be good. Never chose a gift that will insult you partner. Tell your partner how special this gift means to you. A present may not be expensive. Choose a gift that your partner will remember. In this way, both of you will enjoy the romance and will continue to become romantic if you are able to handle it well.

Even if you think of giving gifts to your loved one, the gift you must give need not be expensive. You do not have to spend much money to be romantic. You can start a plan before your partners break at work. Then you can devote all the time in that day with your partner. You can give your partner a soothing massage, foot scrub, back rub, and do the shores together and many more worthwhile activities that will make the bond stronger. You can let your partner decide on what is the possible thing to do to enhance the romance between the two of you.

Think about something special. You can treat your partner in a local honeymoon trip. You can visit a local hotel and spend the whole day and night for honeymoon. It does not need to be expensive; you just have to make sure to include champagne, strawberries and whipped cream in your honey moon package. You can do your thing while playing a nice, romantic, mood setting music in your honeymoon suite.

You can add a special twist in this rare occasion. You can pack your partners bag and tell your partner on what are your plans in this activity. Blind fold your partner and lead your partner to the honeymoon suite. This can add thrill to your romantic relationship.

Before you can start up your local honeymoon, go to the nearest shop and look for a card that you can give your partner. Buy as many cards as you can do not limit your chance to be romantic. Choose a card to where you can write how you feel about your partner‘s great romantic influence in your life. You can choose to send it before this special moment starts or even every month, every week or every waking hour.

You can cook for your loved one as well. During weekend, try to give your partner a special menu that includes all the favorite food. Add some sweetness by baking sweet cakes and cookies. This will make your partner love your more.

Of which ever idea is going to work for your loved one make sure to include your heart to every activity you do. Remember that in anything you do that most important thing is that your together.

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