Showing posts with label Ruth. Show all posts
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Sunday, February 20, 2011

Bible Study - Ruth Chapter 4 & a Link Up!!


Names in this chapter (excluding the closing genealogy):

Obed: Servant

Ruth 4:1

This chapter begins by telling us that Boaz went up to the gate. In scripture we often read about leaders sitting at the city gates, it’s similar to what we know as town hall meetings, a market place, and a court house. There was much activity at the city gates.

Some references include:
  • Lot at the gate of Sodom (Genesis 19:1)
  • Abraham in front of an audience of the children of Heth (Genesis 23:10)
  • David sitting at the gate, and all the people came to the gate to hear him. (2 Samuel 19:8)
  • David acknowledges the murmuring against him at the city gates (Psalm 69:12)
  • Husband of Proverbs 31 woman was known at the gates and sat among the elders (Proverbs 31:23)
Ruth 4:2-5

The “kinsman” walked by. Hebrew word used there is Strong's H1350 - ga'al “To redeem or to ransom.

In verse two, Boaz took ten “elders” to witness the discussion, and hopefully, their transaction. In much the same way, a public confession of faith is a necessary step in living a victorious Christian life. Baptism is one way we do that.

What are some ways that you have publicly confessed your faith? Or haven't you?

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Boaz chose ten men. Yet it was required in the Jewish law that they required the witness of two or three. The only significance that I can see in his choice of ten is that of the Ten Commandments. The commandments, and our failure to keep them, prove our need for a kinsman redeemer. In a sense they bear witness to our sin. (we’ll discuss this a little more further down).

The word “brother” used in verse three likely refers to Elimelech being a close relative. It doesn’t necessarily mean “brother” as we know it.

Boaz states his intentions in front of the witnesses, offering the unnamed man first-right of redemption. Boaz offers the kinsman the right to purchase Elimelech’s land, but advises him that should he wish to purchase it, he must also take Ruth to be his wife so that Elimelech’s name would live on.

Ruth 4:6

This is a key verse in the book of Ruth. Although this historical account is true, remember from our previous studies that Naomi represented Israel, Ruth represented the Gentiles who were grafted in to the faith, and Boaz represents Jesus Christ as our Kinsman Redeemer. It’s interesting to note that in this chapter we are introduced to an unknown next-of-kin who would seem to represent the old law.

“For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh.” ~ Romans 8:3

“Weak through the flesh” means that we are slaves to our sin (the Ten Commandments and our failure to keep them, bear witness to that), but when we are in Christ Jesus we walk after the Sprit and die to ourselves.

Buying the land was inviting, but marrying Ruth meant that he would also raise up the name of Elimelech and destroy his own inheritance.

Look at this scripture:

Thou knowest the commandments, Do not commit adultery, Do not kill, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Honour thy father and thy mother. And he [the rich young ruler] said, All these have I kept from my youth up. Now when Jesus heard these things, he said unto him, Yet lackest thou one thing: sell all that thou hast, and distribute unto the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come, follow me. And when he heard this, he was very sorrowful: for he was very rich. ~ Luke 18:20-23

In what ways, if any, are the near kinsman and the rich young ruler similar?

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How might that piece of scripture from Luke relate to your walk with Christ?

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You see the law and commandments were good—their purpose is to show us our need for a savior--but the new covenant requires us to give up our own desires to serve the Lord and raise up His name. That’s what being born again is all about. Our old life along with its passions and desires are gone, and we are born into a new life that seeks to serve God.

Being a moral citizen does not a Christian make. Desiring to serve God and live according to His wisdom sets us apart as Holy.

The kinsman in chapter four wasn’t ready to give of himself to become one with his people, and so he passed his right on to Boaz.

Ruth 4:7-9

Removing one’s shoe was a custom in Israel as a public confirmation of transfer in the redemption process.

Ruth 4:10-12

Boaz knew that there was a coming Messiah, born through the line of Judah (Genesis 49:10) and therefore it was his honor to carry on the lineage of his family, “That the name of the dead be not cut off from his brethren.” It’s this hope in the coming Messiah that was counted as faith in the Old Testament, whereas our hope is in Jesus Christ who came to redeem us and will come again.

Because of his faith, the witnesses blessed him, which came to pass since the Messiah was born through their blood line.

Ruth 4:13-22

The “he” referred to in verse fifteen is the “Lord” mentioned in verse fourteen. God restored Naomi’s life in the sense that Boaz carried on the family name of Elimelech, and through his marriage to Ruth brought descendants to their family. The book of Ruth started out with the death of three men, but what was once death became life through kinsman redemption.

“Seven” is generally considered spiritual completeness in the Bible. To have seven sons would give a mother a sense of completeness, but in verse fifteen we see that Ruth was deemed higher than that. It is evident that Ruth was deemed as a great blessing.

Consider the full study of Ruth. What are some of the many ways that Ruth was a blessing to Naomi?

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When Naomi took the child and became “nurse” to it, let’s not confuse it with her with a wet nurse as we might see elsewhere in the Bible. The word “nurse” used here is ‘aman, Strong's H539, which means to support, confirm, or be faithful.

The name given to their child was Obed, meaning servant. Obed begat Jesse, and Jesse begat David, King of Israel. It’s exciting to see that one who is called “servant” became grandfather to the King of Israel.


Optional homework for the week:


Memorize Ruth 4:15

Underline some of the scriptures that stood out to you and add cross references for future study.

Read the fourth chapter again with some of the lessons in mind.

That closes our study on chapter four.




If you are studying along with us this week, you are welcome to leave a link to your site in the Linky tool below. But rather than linking up with a graphic from your blog like we usually do, it would be nice if you could post your profile photo so we can all see each other. If you don't have one--not a problem, another graphic will do. The Linky tool is just a way for all of us to get to know each other, it's not necessary to write a corresponding post.

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You are loved by an almighty God,

Darlene

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Sunday, February 13, 2011

Bible Study - Ruth Chapter 3 & a Link Up!!


Note: To find the studies on Ruth chapters 1&2, click the above image.

Ruth 3:1-2

In verse one, Naomi said that she was seeking “rest” for Ruth. Since Ruth was a widow, it would be an ongoing concern for Ruth to earn a living and provide for herself even throughout her old age. It was customary that Jews would take care of their own, but even in those cases they had to be reminded by the leaders to do so:

But if any widow have children or nephews, let them learn first to shew piety at home, and to requite their parents: for that is good and acceptable before God. ~ 1 Timothy 1:4

Knowing that Boaz was related through Elimelech, Naomi seized the opportunity for Ruth to be his bride. With that hope in mind she instructed Ruth to approach him.

Verse two tells us that Boaz was winnowing barley in the threshing floor. Winnowing was a process of separating the wheat from the shaft. John the Baptist also used this analogy when he spoke of the coming Messiah:

Whose fan is in his hand, and he will thoroughly purge his floor, and gather his wheat into the garner; but he will burn up the chaff with unquenchable fire. ~ Matthew 3:12

What do you suppose John the Baptist meant in that verse?

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The “fan” is a wind that was required in the process. Here’s a description of “winnowing” from Wikipedia.org:

[Winnowing] In its simplest form it involves throwing the mixture into the air so that the wind blows away the lighter chaff, while the heavier grains fall back down for recovery. Techniques included using a winnowing fan (a shaped basket shaken to raise the chaff) or using a tool (a winnowing fork) on a pile of harvested grain.

Ruth 3:3-5

I’m digging deep into this chapter because I believe that the story of kinsman redemption found in the book of Ruth is symbolic to our relationship with Christ, and God’s redeeming love. It’s exciting to see just how much symbolism is used and how the events of this story line up with the harvests as discussed in lessons one and two.

In verse three Naomi instructs Ruth to wash herself, anoint herself, and put on her raiment. These are the three things that we as Christians put on in a sense, as we prepare and wait for the return of our Lord.

  1. Washing with water by the word is a continual process. As we read the word and follow God’s commandments.

  2. Anoint means to smear, rub or smooth on. In Biblical times, Shepherds would anoint sheep with oil on the head and around the ears to protect the area from the infestation of insects (www.gotquestions.org/anointed.html). In the New Testament it is synonymous with the Holy Spirit upon God’s people. Anointing one with oil is a symbol of consecration. By the anointing of the Holy Spirit we are set apart from the world and purified.

  3. Our raiment as believers is our robe of righteousness that covers our sin. It is the perfect conduct of Christ covering our imperfect sinful lives. It is given to us by the grace and forgiveness of God.
I will greatly rejoice in the LORD, my soul shall be joyful in my God; for he hath clothed me with the garments of salvation, he hath covered me with the robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom decketh himself with ornaments, and as a bride adorneth herself with her jewels. ~ Isaiah 61:10

In what ways if any is this similar to a modern bride preparing for marriage?

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Ruth 3:6-7

Here we read that Ruth went to Boaz softy, uncovered his feet and lay down. There are conflicting theories as to why she uncovered his feet, and what exactly that meant. I believe that we can best understand it by comparing her actions to that of a humble servant. She was in essence bowing at his feet in an act of submission rather than assuming the right to his kinship.

How can we apply this demonstration by Ruth to our relationship with our husbands, and also to our relationship toward Jesus Christ?

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Ruth 3:8-9

When Ruth says, “Spread therefore thy skirt over thine handmaid,” to Boaz, it was the same as saying “spread your wing” or “take me under thy wing of protection.” Then Ruth adds “For thou art a near kinsman.”

Skirt – Hebrew “Kanaph” Strong’s Concordance H3671 - wing, extremity, edge, winged, border, corner, shirt, skirt.

Before going any further with the study of Ruth, we need to look closely at the law of a kinsman in relation to marriage, and what a “kinsman redeemer” is. This following portion of scripture is very important in understanding Ruth chapters 2 and 3. In fact the "shoe" mentioned in the following portion of scripture will be found in our next study of chapter four.

Law of Kinship

"If brethren dwell together, and one of them die, and have no child, the wife of the dead shall not marry without unto a stranger: her husband's brother shall go in unto her, and take her to him to wife, and perform the duty of an husband's brother unto her. And it shall be, that the firstborn which she beareth shall succeed in the name of his brother which is dead, that his name be not put out of Israel. And if the man like not to take his brother's wife, then let his brother's wife go up to the gate unto the elders, and say, My husband's brother refuseth to raise up unto his brother a name in Israel, he will not perform the duty of my husband's brother. Then the elders of his city shall call him, and speak unto him: and if he stand to it, and say, I like not to take her; Then shall his brother's wife come unto him in the presence of the elders, and loose his shoe from off his foot, and spit in his face, and shall answer and say, So shall it be done unto that man that will not build up his brother's house. And his name shall be called in Israel, The house of him that hath his shoe loosed." ~ Deuteronomy 25:5-10

Kinsman Redemption:

The law of Kinsman Redemption is basically this. If a relative is sold as a servant to a stranger, the next of kin has a right to buy him back.

"And if a sojourner or stranger wax rich by thee, and thy brother that dwelleth by him wax poor, and sell himself unto the stranger or sojourner by thee, or to the stock of the stranger's family: After that he is sold he may be redeemed again; one of his brethren may redeem him: Either his uncle, or his uncle's son, may redeem him, or any that is nigh of kin unto him of his family may redeem him; or if he be able, he may redeem himself." ~ Leviticus 25:47-49

What does the word “redeem” mean? (See www.dictionary.com)

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How are we redeemed by Jesus Christ? Was it important that He was born of Jewish descent? Why or why not? (Compare Galatians 4:3-7)

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Ruth 3:10-11

Here we see that Boaz refers to Ruth as “virtuous.”

Virtuous – Hebrew “chayil” Strong’s Concordance H2428 – strength, power might

Why do you think that Boaz defined Ruth as a virtuous woman?

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Ruth 3:12-13

Boaz acknowledges his right of kinship, but points out that there is another man who is closer in relation to Naomi’s family. According to the law, this other relative would have to forego his right to the marriage first. (See reference to kinsman above).

Ruth 3:14-18

In the morning, Boaz sends Ruth with a gift, which she carries in her veil.

Veil – Hebrew “mitpachath” Strong’s Concordance H4304 meaning “a cloak.”

Upon returning home, Naomi asks, “Who art thou, my daughter?” Was Ruth betrothed to Boaz or not? Naomi wanted to know.

After filling Naomi in on the details, she advised Ruth to leave it in the hands of Boaz. In the same way, we can rest knowing that our salvation is in the hands of Jesus Christ.

Optional homework for the week:


Memorize Ruth 3:11

Underline some of the scriptures that stood out to you and add cross references for future study.

Read the third chapter again with some of the lessons in mind.

That closes our study on chapter three. I hope you'll come back next Monday for a study on chapter four.




If you are attending this Bible study today, you are welcome to leave a link to your site in the Linky tool below. But rather than linking up with a graphic from your blog like we usually do, it would be nice if you could post your profile photo so we can all see each other. If you don't have one--not a problem, another graphic will do. The Linky tool is just a way for all of us to get to know each other, it's not necessary to write a corresponding post.

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You are loved by an almighty God,

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Sunday, February 6, 2011

Bible Study - Ruth Chapter 2 & a Link Up!!


Background - The Law of Gleaning

Before we get into chapter 2, we should take a close look at the law of gleaning. In Leviticus we see that gleaning was left for the poor. Farmers were instructed to only harvest the fields once so that the less fortunate would be provided for. They also left the edges and the corners for them to glean.

When you reap the harvest of your land, do not reap to the very edges of your field or gather the gleanings of your harvest. Do not go over your vineyard a second time or pick up the grapes that have fallen. Leave them for the poor and the foreigner. I am the LORD your God. ~ Leviticus 19:9-10, NIV

When you are harvesting in your field and you overlook a sheaf, do not go back to get it. Leave it for the foreigner, the fatherless and the widow, so that the LORD your God may bless you in all the work of your hands. When you beat the olives from your trees, do not go over the branches a second time. Leave what remains for the foreigner, the fatherless and the widow. When you harvest the grapes in your vineyard, do not go over the vines again. Leave what remains for the foreigner, the fatherless and the widow. Remember that you were slaves in Egypt. That is why I command you to do this. Deuteronomy 24:19-22, NIV

So when we see the famous painting of the gleaners, and when we hear it talked about in Ruth, we can now understand what gleaning was all about.

Before you start this study, please bow for a moment in a word of prayer, asking God to prepare your heart for His Word.

Chapter 2

People in the second chapter and the Hebrew meaning of their names:

Boaz = In him is strength

The Genealogy of Boaz
Ruth 2:1

In verse one, we are introduced to Boaz. We are told that Boaz is a relative (kinsman) of Naomi’s deceased husband, Elimelech. Let’s take a quick look at the genealogy in part to see where Boaz came from:

Abraham begat Isaac; and Isaac begat Jacob; and Jacob begat Judas [Judah] and his brethren; And Judas begat Phares and Zara of Thamar; and Phares begat Esrom; and Esrom begat Aram; And Aram begat Aminadab; and Aminadab begat Naasson; and Naasson begat Salmon; And Salmon begat Booz of Rachab [Rahab]; and Booz begat Obed of Ruth; and Obed begat Jesse; And Jesse begat David the king; and David the king begat Solomon of her that had been the wife of Urias; ~ Matthew 1:2-6, KJV

Look up Matthew chapter one to find the complete genealogy of Jesus Christ. List the five women that you find there:


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It’s interesting to note that in the genealogy of Jesus Christ 4 of the 5 women listed were prostitutes, fornicators, and a Moabite. This goes to show us that God doesn’t require people of perfection to do His work--He calls those with a pure and willing heart.

Ruth Joyfully Serving Naomi
Ruth 2:2-9

In verse 2 we see that Ruth offered to go to work for Naomi. Again we see loving kindness from this young woman who has vowed to stand by her mother-in-law.

Hard work is a virtue. We see it here in the virtuous character of Ruth, and again in Proverbs. Note these hard-working characteristics of the virtuous woman in Proverbs chapter 31:
  • Works with eager hands. (13)
  • Provides food for her family (15)
  • She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. (16)
  • She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. (17)
  • She sees that her trading is profitable, (18)
  • She makes coverings for her bed; (22)
  • She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. (24)
These women aren’t sitting around waiting to be served--they are joyfully willing to serve and do what it takes to contribute.

Are you joyfully serving your family? List some ways, if any, where you think that you might be able to give more of your time and talents:

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Verse three tells us that Ruth “haps” on the field of Boaz which means that she was there by chance. But looking at the entire story of Ruth and Boaz, and down the line to the birth of Christ, we see that what is often viewed as "good fortune" is a divine orchestration of God’s plan.

Ruth's Character Symbolic of The Gentiles
Ruth 2:10-12

In our study on Ruth chapter one, we learned that Naomi’s character typifies the Israelite s that were exiled and eventually returned to their land. We need to understand that these aren’t fictional characters, they are actual historical figures, but rather than just telling us a story for the sake of entertainment, the Word of God holds a message in each powerful word we read.

This symbolism illustrates the grace of God and His mercy toward mankind.

With that in mind, take note that in chapter two, we see Ruth’s character symbolizing the gentiles which were grafted in to the faith to be one with God’s people. Not by our own right, but by grace.

For I speak to you Gentiles, inasmuch as I am the apostle of the Gentiles, I magnify mine office. ~ Romans 11:13, KJV

And if some of the branches be broken off, and thou, being a wild olive tree, wert grafted in among them, and with them partakest of the root and fatness of the olive tree; Boast not against the branches. But if thou boast, thou bearest not the root, but the root thee. Thou wilt say then, The branches were broken off, that I might be grafted in. Well; because of unbelief they were broken off, and thou standest by faith. Be not highminded, but fear: ~ Romans 11:17-20, KV

After reading that, compare it with the kindness of Boaz in verse 9 and the humble reaction of Ruth in verse 10.

Then she fell on her face, and bowed herself to the ground, and said unto him, Why have I found grace in thine eyes, that thou shouldest take knowledge of me, seeing I am a stranger? (10)

The word “stranger” used here doesn’t have the same definition of “stranger” as we commonly know it. It is a biblical term for a foreigner. Ruth was humbled and grateful that Boaz offered grace to someone outside of his family, especially since she was a Moabite. Another word for stranger that we’ll often see used in scripture is “Gentile,” which denotes people who are not of Jewish decent.

Ruth's and the Famous Wall of Faith

Ruth is similar to those listed in the famous wall of faith found in Hebrews 11. Because of her obedience to leave her family and country to serve God, it was counted to her for faith.

List 11 of the faithful people found in Hebrews chapter 11:

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Complete this sentence:

Ruth 2:11: And Boaz answered and said unto her, It hath fully been shewed me, all that thou hast done unto thy mother in law since the death of thine husband: and how thou hast…

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Compare these verses from the wall of faith:

These all died in faith, not having received the promises, but having seen them afar off, and were persuaded of them, and embraced them, and confessed that they were strangers and pilgrims on the earth. For they that say such things declare plainly that they seek a country. And truly, if they had been mindful of that country from whence they came out, they might have had opportunity to have returned. But now they desire a better country, that is, an heavenly: wherefore God is not ashamed to be called their God: for he hath prepared for them a city. ~ Hebrews 11:13-16

Ruth was mindful of where she came from, and she desired to serve the God of the Israelite's—the one true God. She was willing to give up everything that she had to be a part of His people and their faith.

Consider your own life. What things are you still hanging onto? Are there people, addictions, or passions that are standing in the way of your faith? If so, list some of the areas that you need to work on:

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Boaz Considers Ruth a Relative and Friend

Ruth 2:13-17

Boaz recognized this faith in Ruth and in return accepted her into his household. Bestowing a great honor upon her, he invited her to share at his table (14).

Compare our relationship with Jesus:

Henceforth I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you. ~ John 15:15

Ruth Shares Her Experience with Naomi
Ruth 2:18-21

Ruth returned home to Naomi with an ephah (a substantial amount, probably about 60 pounds) of barley, and told her about the kindness of Boaz.

Naomi was pleased that Boaz recognized the relationship (kinsman) that they had to him through her marriage to Elimelech. She credited God for his kindness on the living and the dead (20). She then explained to Ruth that Boaz was a close relative and one of their next kinsman.

Kinsman is another word for “relative.” While Boaz was a close relative, he wasn’t the closest/the nearest kinsman to them. We’ll discuss how this comes into play in the next two chapters.

The Wheat Harvest
Ruth 2:22


Ruth stayed close to the handmaidens of Boaz and gleaned in his fields through the barley harvest and the wheat harvest.

It’s interesting to note that the first chapter ends at the barley harvest, and the second chapter ends by mentioning the wheat harvest.

The Two Harvests Mentioned
April-May – Barley Harvest, corresponds to The Passover
June-July – Wheat Harvest, corresponds to The Feast of Pentecost

It was during this wheat harvest that Ruth is betrothed to Boaz as we will see in the next study. This foreshadows the day of Pentecost, in Acts chapter 2 when God established his church by pouring His spirit upon all believers.

Optional homework for the week:


Memorize Ruth 2:10

Underline some of the scriptures that stood out to you and add cross references for future study.

Read the second chapter again with some of the lessons in mind.

That closes our study on chapter two. I hope you'll come back next Monday for a study on chapter three.

P.S. A lot of women have been asking if I'll be doing another Bible study after we finish Ruth. I'm unsure at this time, but I'm leaning toward, yes. I'm enjoying my time of digging into the Word, and having this Monday morning time with you. I'll give it another week or two before I decide for sure.



If you are attending this Bible study today, you are welcome to leave a link to your site in the Linky tool below. But rather than linking up with a graphic from your blog like we usually do, it would be nice if you could post your profile photo so we can all see each other. If you don't have one--not a problem, another graphic will do. The Linky tool is just a way for all of us to get to know each other, it's not necessary to write a corresponding post.

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You are loved by an almighty God,

Darlene

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Sunday, January 30, 2011

Bible Study - Ruth Chapter 1 & a Link up!


Introduction

For the next four weeks we’ll be digging into the book of Ruth, exploring what it means to live a life of self-sacrifice and how the story of kinsman redemption relates to our lives today. Ruth is the only woman in the Bible referred as “virtuous” (3:11), and as we uncover some of those virtues, we’ll study them deeply. Ruth’s extraordinary devotion to her mother-in-law, Naomi, is an incredible love story between two women that offers us a pattern to follow in our lives.

Ruth, the grandmother of Jessie, and the great-grandmother of King David, was one of the five women listed in the genealogy of Christ along with Tamar, Rahab, Bathsheba, and Mary. The book was written between 1500-1600 B.C., and although the authorship is undetermined, Bible scholars commonly believe it was penned by Samuel.

The main characters within are all to be admired for their devotion to family and loving kindness one to another. I pray that during the next four weeks, the things we uncover will inspire us to reshape our character and vigorously pursue our kinsman redeemer, Jesus Christ.

Before you start this study, I want to ask that you bow for a moment in a word of prayer, asking God to prepare your heart for His Word.


Chapter 1


People in the first chapter and the Hebrew meaning of their names:

Elimelech = God is my King
Naomi = Pleasant
Mahlon = Sickness (Ruth’s 1st Husband)
Chilion = Wasting, puny
Ruth = Beauty; Desirable
Orpah = Fawn
Mara = Bitter

Elimelech and Naomi’s Family
Ruth 1:1-5


We see in verse one that Elimelech and his wife Naomi took their two sons to live in the country of Moab. In studying this, it’s important that we understand who the Moabites were and why they were looked down upon by the Jews.

Moab was the son of Lot conceived by incest. In an attempt to preserve the seed of their father, Lot’s daughters caused him to get drunk, and without his knowledge they both conceived his children. The first born was Moab. Genesis 19:30-38

The book begins by telling us that a couple, of Jewish decent, Elimelech and Naomi, moved to the land of Moab with their two sons to escape the famine in Bethlehem-Judah. After their father died, the two sons married women of Moab.

Why do you think this union of marriage might have been looked down upon by the Israelites? Compare Deuteronomy 23:3-4 with Ruth 1:4.

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What were the names of the two women they married?

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What happened to the sons?

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Naomi’s Decision to Return to Judah
Ruth 1:6-15


Why did Naomi leave Moab and return to Judah?

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What reason did Naomi give in urging Orpah and Ruth to stay in Moab?
(verses 8-13)


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To understand what Naomi meant in these verses, it’s important to understand the Jewish law and customs regarding widows.

If brethren dwell together, and one of them die, and have no child, the wife of the dead shall not marry without unto a stranger: her husband's brother shall go in unto her, and take her to him to wife, and perform the duty of an husband's brother unto her. ~ Deuteronomy 25:5

Naomi wanted the best for them including a future with a husband and children.

Which daughter-in-law stayed and which left?

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The love and devotion that Naomi and her daughter-in-laws shared is an example to women of the devotion that we can share with our in-laws too.

Ruth’s Decision to Stay With Naomi
Ruth 1:16-18

Without a closer look at the underlying conflict between the two cultures, one might not fully understand that Ruth’s decision to stay with Naomi in verse 14 was an incredible sacrifice. Moving away from her people to live in a foreign land would limit her chances of finding a husband. It was commanded in their law that Israelites marry other Israelites, rather than seek out brides that serve pagan gods as the Moabites did. (Deuteronomy 7:2-3)

One of the most beautiful pieces of scripture is found in this chapter:

But Ruth replied, “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the LORD deal with me, be it ever so severely, if even death separates you and me. ~ Ruth 1:16-17

Becoming “one” with my husband means that his people became my people including every idiosyncrasy they might have. I love that even though my family is wonderfully-weird at times, my husband accepts them as his own flesh and blood. It’s one of the virtuous qualities that Ruth possessed and that we can own too. That doesn’t mean it’s necessarily going to be easy, in fact the decision that Ruth made to follow Naomi required a complete surrender of all that she was.

What five things did Ruth promise Naomi in her plead to follow?

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What are some of the admirable character traits in both Ruth and Naomi?

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Naomi and Ruth Arrive at Bethlehem
Ruth 1:19-21


When they arrived in Bethlehem, what did Naomi wish to be called? Why?

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Naomi’s character typifies the Israelites that were exiled and eventually returned to their land, but we can also see that she typifies the life of a sinner that comes home.

Like the prodigal son, she went out full and came home empty again. (v.21)
She wasn’t worthy of her name. Nor was the prodigal son, “And the son said unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in thy sight, and am no more worthy to be called thy son.” Luke 15:21

The people welcomed her home. In the story of the prodigal son we read, “But the father said to his servants, Bring forth the best robe, and put it on him; and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet.” Luke 15:22

It’s important to note that when God brings you into His fellowship you come to Him broken and lost. We are nothing without the grace of God.

The Barley Harvest
Ruth 1:22


Barley in its ripened stage is known as “Abib.”The month of Abib (referred to as Nisan after the captivity) represents a new biblical year for the Jews and the start of Passover.

It’s interesting to note the correlation between the arrival of Naomi and Ruth in Bethlehem and the Israelites' freedom from Egypt, which are both marked by the Passover feast—again reinforcing the symbolism of Naomi typifying Israel.

Observe the month of Abib, and keep the passover unto the LORD thy God: for in the month of Abib the LORD thy God brought thee forth out of Egypt by night. ~ Deuteronomy 16:1


Optional homework for the week:

Memorize Ruth 1:16-17

Underline some of the scriptures that stood out to you and add cross references for future study.

Read the first chapter again with some of the lessons in mind.

That closes our study on chapter one. I hope you'll come back next Monday for a study on chapter 2.



If you are attending this Bible study today, you are welcome to leave a link to your site in the Linky tool below. But rather than linking up with a graphic from your blog like we usually do, it would be nice if you could post your profile photo so we can all see each other. If you don't have one--not a problem, another graphic will do. The Linky tool is just a way for all of us to get to know each other, it's not necessary to write a corresponding post.

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You are loved by an almighty God,

Darlene

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Friday, January 28, 2011

Serious Dater




A woman's heart should be so hidden
in God that a man has to seek Him
just to find her.
~ Max Lucado


Darlene,

Firstly, I love your blog and that you stand up for Christ in a very strong way. You have been a shepherd of God's word for me, and others, I know.

I am currently not married, but seriously dating a Godly man. I have struggled as to what my part in our relationship is as a non-married, but serious dater to him. I have a passion for serving him like a husband (cleaning, encouraging words, helping to care for his puppy, etc.) but don't know where the line is.

On one hand I want to show him what kind of wife I would be. On the other hand, I don't want him not to have any motivation to get married, if I already act like we are. I feel like the only Biblical advice out there for dating relationships is "don't have sex before you're married." While that's great advice, I'd love to know more about what each other's Biblical roles are.

If you have any advice or a place to find this kind of guidance, please do send it my way. My future husband will owe you and other Christian bloggers big time because you have taught me God's word surrounding my place as a wife.

Serious Dater



Serious Dater,

Thank you for your words of encouragement. I've taken a few days to think about your question and while I did, it prompted me to start a Bible Study on the book of Ruth.

I was particularly interested in Ruth because she is the only woman (other than the Proverbs 31 woman) that the Bible refers to as "virtuous." The earliest use of the word referred to men of strength, and is now commonly defined as "moral character." With that in mind we can assume she had strength of character.


Who can find a virtuous woman?
For her price is far above rubies.
~ Proverbs 31:10


Being genuine and living out ones faith, are the most attractive characteristics a single woman can have, providing that her character is noble. I think that too often we give up who we are to absorb ourselves in the other person, that we forget we have a life too.

While you love him, and anticipate marriage, it’s important to retain a sense of independence as well. Not being available 24/7 and devoting time to your life apart from him keeps that motivation alive.

In Ruth 2:11 we discover the noble character of this woman who won the heart of Boaz:


And Boaz answered and said unto her,
It hath fully been shewed me, all that
thou hast done unto thy mother in law
since the death of thine husband:
and how thou hast left thy father and
thy mother, and the land of thy nativity,
and art come unto a people which thou
knewest not heretofore.


It wasn’t what she was doing for Boaz that caught his eye; it was the loving kindness that she bestowed upon others.

It’s true that the Bible doesn’t direct too many scriptures toward single girls, but the books of Ruth and Esther depict the lives of two single women through whom we can learn much.

In the next four weeks I’ll be doing a study on the book of Ruth, exploring one chapter each Monday. I think that a deeper look into the character of Ruth may answer some of the questions you have. Hope to see you here this Monday as we explore the first chapter together.

You are loved by an almighty God,

Darlene

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Saturday, December 11, 2010

Your People Will Be My People


Dear Darlene,

I loved the advice you gave to the young woman in yesterday's article, "Bride in Training." So great! Especially the counsel to discuss finances in detail before marriage; my husband and I did not do this very well, and it caused confusion. We finally worked through it with a lot of communication, but it would have been so much easier if we had really hashed it out beforehand.

Our pre-marriage financial talk was:

"I really don't like dealing with accounting, would you mind handling that part of the household?"

Followed by his reply, "Sure, whatever you would like."

Meanwhile, his strength is not organization (he has many other strengths), and it is a strength I had, so it did not make sense to do things this way. He really felt frustrated dealing with it, and though it isn't my favorite thing, it is something that I deal with better. So, now I do the accounting and things run smoothly.

I also liked the tip about learning from the respective mothers about cooking. I cooked with my husband’s mother for two weeks before we got married, and learned many different dishes. I was already a person that loved to cook--and cooked a lot--but there is something wonderful about bonding with a future mother-in-law in this way. And there are certain things I can make for my husband now that I would have never known how to make before (e.g., snowball cookies, brisket, sweet and sour meatballs--just like his mom). Certain recipes are particular to each family. These things make a big difference in an early marriage!

Anyway, lots of good tips. Hope you have a great weekend!

Meghann

Dear Meghann,

Thank you for your letter. Your encouragement means a lot coming from a young bride who's recently experienced all of these changes [Meghann’s written to me before].

Marriage is our biggest readjustment in life and the first few years bring us through an incredible life change unlike any other we'll ever face. Even the food we eat is different. It's a wonder that our brains can handle the shift, but I suspect that romance goes a long way in easing the stress.

God knew what He was doing when He created men and women; every detail is wonderfully and carefully thought through. Amazing!

I especially like your thoughts about bonding with your future mother-in-law, and believe that it’s something every young bride should consider. I’m reminded of Ruth who was an example to all women when she embraced her husband’s family as her own. Her devotion to Naomi is a love story all on it’s own.

Ruth replied, “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.
~ Ruth 1:16, NIV


If my blog speaks to as much as one woman and makes a difference in her marriage than I have done a part in God's work, but it hasn't been without the encouraging feedback from women like you. Thank you!

You are loved by an almighty God,

Darlene

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