Infidelity 101 - Catch Them With Their Pants Down

Okay, not literally of course, however there are certain actions you can take when you suspect your loved one is cheating on you. Nothing can be more emotionally damaging that finding out your partner's love interests lay elsewhere with someone else. From hurt to humility to anger, you run the gamut of emotions. Find you below what you can do now to deal with your suspicions of a cheating partner.

Keep track of your bills. If they are going to cheat, a credit card transaction or repeated unknown phone number might alert you to a cheating partner. If you monitor your incoming bills on a regular basis (including your bank accounts), will help give you an ongoing "snapshot" of activities. If you some reason the statement start to disappear or your partner rushes to pay them, you might want to suspect dishonorable actions - it is obvious at this point they are attempting to hide something.

Another way to discover a cheating mate is to monitor their online activities. What better a way to cheat on you while in your own home than through a computer? There are numerous software programs available that will log activity on your computer including email addresses, screenshots of pages visited and text messaging. Once you have the software installed, just wait a few days and check it out. I recommend you get the full version software and avoid trial products online due to possible pop up renewal messages and short trial periods. More resources are available below.

If your partner starts to spend more time at the office, working later, you can easily find you if in fact they are working. Make a surprise visit to their work with a homemade snack or lunch. If they are there, it will at least ease your mind about any infidelity suspicions you have. If they are no where to be found, they have some explaining to do. Your random visits will surely stop any cheating thoughts they may have.

You have to power to discover the secret life of your partner. If you suspect them of cheating, you have every right to know about it. More information and resources are available below. Waiting and hoping it will go away is not the solution. The solution is to deal with it now.

Feeling angry and humiliated due to suspicions of a cheating partner? Track them and get to the bottom of their activities. You do not have to stand by and let it happen. Visit my site, http://beatingcheating.blogspot.com/ to find out what you can do now.